They are afraid to get married…

Observation of life…

After having conversation with multiple Individuals. I saw a pattern in their words…

Those who were totally against the concept of marriage were actually the one who had the highest desire to get married… BUT…

But the issues which always appeared in their life and made them afraid to pursue marriage was…

They never had an ideal marriage to look up to.. all they heard, saw.. and understood was…

Marriage was always about being a slave: compromises, complaints, fighting, betrayal, possession, hatred, lack of respect, loss of freedom, burden on the shoulder & always about body & sex…

This is all they saw.. heard.. and understood… Everywhere they saw.. they only saw the worst of the worst…

And their surrounding made them more fearful about life…

But I wish someday they realize… If you can’t find an ideal marriage… Make your marriage an ideal… So others can get inspired and know…

Marriage is all about love, care, concern, healthy compromises, sharing feelings, understanding and supporting each other, and creating a safe and secure life – together… Mentally… Physically… Emotionally.. and Spiritually…

I hope instead of fearing the unknown, people create an amazing ideal known for themselves 🔥💞

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