Why is it so hard ? Why don’t we know our purpose ? Why don’t we have a guide ? Why do we Suffer ? Why do we Lose ? Why do we have to keep moving when the direction is unknown ? Why is it so ? Why aren’t we given a book from birth so that we may follow ? Why is it, that we have no idea where we have to go ? Why ?
The “WHY” is what keeps us moving. Human Being by nature, keep searching for answers and when he gets it, he is “Satisfied“. When he is satisfied, he stops looking for the answers.
Let me make it easy for you, What will you do “if” you had a book in your hand which state each and every steps you will take in life.
“Will you dare to take it ? And FOLLOW it ? ”
We human being are always greedy and follow our own desire, whoever it may be, most of the time we are driven by our ego, convincing our-selves that we know more than anyone else.. We are “Know it all” people. But that “Know it all” is a state of mind where you think you have enough knowledge, but the bitter truth is we have nothing.
All over the world, the most frequently asked questions are :- Why is it so hard ? Why don’t we know our purpose ? Why don’t we have a guide ? Why do we Suffer ? Why do we Lose ? Why do we have to keep moving when the direction is unknown ? Why is it so ? Why aren’t we given a book from birth so that we may follow ? Why is it, that we have no idea where we have to go ? Why ?
We are people who choose short-cut instead of experiencing life, We want everything fast, without pain, without suffering, without taking any efforts.
We learn and grow, but we must understand that every single step is pre-determined. There is an infinite choice that has been existing from the time of the existence of universe. The choices are already known by the All-Knowing[GOD].
Let me give you an example :- I am writing this article. The time i am investing in typing this, i could have done the following things instead :-
1. Read a Novel.
2. Listen to Music.
3. Meet an Old friend.
4. Drink tea.
5. Visit a restaurant.
6. Go to the near-by park.
7. Initiate a conversation with a stranger.
8. Reading Someone else blog.
9. Preparing for my higher examination.
10. Board a Bus/Cab/train.
11. Ride a Bicycle.
12. Visit a Hospital.
13. Talk to someone and would be discussing about an adventurous trip.
I could be doing anything beside writing this article, but “I CHOOSE” to write, so that you may read and Understand.
Every single decision, situation, pain, happiness, sadness, love, hate, angry, anxiety etc everything is the result of what we had “CHOOSEN” in the past, and what we are “Choosing” Now.
So next time when you blame, God/ Higher- power/The source, for all the suffering and misery that you have in life. Remember it’s you who have did it all.
It’s a web, A web that you build, A web in which you dissolve thinking it’s the reality. You are lost in the web that you have created for yourself.
Get out of the web, the one who creates, he only can destroy. You are creating “Excuses, bad-habits, your thoughts, your feelings, your perception, your emotion, your situation, your suffering, your anxiety, hatred, pain, loneliness and especially the relationships.
When we get the meaning of things, we stop searching for it, I used to ask everyone i met, “What’s the meaning of life“. No one explained it, No one can, No one will .. Because this life is your’s, you are the ” Meaning”.
Stop complaining about your depression, anxiety, lack of self-stem, lack of confidence. And start talking about The beauty of Moments, the feeling of love, the smell you smell, the sensations you feel, the peace in your heart… That’s how we change…
I know it’s hard, but it’s worth living and defining it ourselves. The pain, the suffering, the lost path, the lost you, everything have a “MEANING”…
Just “Live” those moments and the meaning would come into existence and the purpose will be known through Inspiration…
The Voice that is deep-down, Is asking you to stop ! And look Around, There are thousands of things waiting for you, but you are busy in finding the meaning of life, and blaming yourself for not being able to achieve the illusion which the world had put around.
“Live it, the moment is your, It’s passes in vain or peace. Now it’s your turn to “Choose” , the vanity of life or the peace that surrounds..”
——- Abdul Gani Punjabi