Before judging you – I kept quiet, and observed your words, actions, and behaviour…

Then when I analysed you, on the basis of what you say, do and act…! You told me I was being judgemental..

Really? Is that what – ‘Being Judgemental’ mean to you?

2 thoughts on “Judgemental…!

  1. My beloved Mother always said: “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.” So, if your tone is such that I would feel attacked, feel like you are pointing a stiff finger in my face, or feel like you were singling me out by “you-Ing” me, instead of sharing how you personally feel, I probably would feel judged.

    However, if I asked you to give me an assessment of my words, actions, and behaviors, as you see them, preferably feel them, then I suppose after taking your assessment with a grain of salt, I suppose I would be appreciative.

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