Born in the era of 90’s, Saw the lifestyle before Internet & Smartphones, Personally Experienced the transition of the ever changing world from the old school types to modern lifestyle! An Author, Writer, International Podcaster, Keynote Speaker & Youth Leadership & Development Enthusiast sharing his 2 cents to give a glimpse of an era where everyone was close & around, and the challenges of fitting in with the Modern Era of Social Media & Materialistic Lifestyle 😅 ✨
1) Who change your perspective through conversations and help you to grow – automatically.
2) Who have conversations which involves blame, complains, insecurity, emotional stress, unhealthy relationship, Inner Trauma, etc..!
The 1st type will make you feel positive, while the 2nd will make you feel negative.. But it is important to have both in life – to learn, grow, and understand human nature..
— Abdul Gani Punjabi
The Speaking Diary 
Exactly..
And… This is life.. ♥
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Yupp…! A *Part* of life…!
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Ookaaaay… A *Part* of life!👍
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I much prefer to have the 1st type which make you feel positive. I recently tried to rekindle a friendship with a old coworker that I would consider as the 2nd type, within one week I couldn’t do it, couldn’t stand it, so toxic.
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To deal with the second type, we need to have high level of emotional balance within oursleves..!
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So are you telling me I don’t have a high level of emotional balance within myself ? So am I supposed to tolerate mental abuse and just put up with it ? You’re wrong big time.
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No.. I just mean to say that.. Instead of taking their words personally, you can uplift your perception of the world and how people think.. which means becoming more stronger within..!
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What are your qualifications?
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In.?
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Are you a qualified psychiatrist or psychologist ?
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No. Since 2014 I have read many articles and books on Personal growth, and human psychology, as well as had many conversations with psychologist which gave me a new perception of life.. I hope this answers it very well..!
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Well I am highly qualified in psychiatry and psychology. You are welcome to your perception which is very different than mine. Please be very careful with your somewhat judgemental statements.
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Kindly read my comments again, I am sure – I never made any judgemental statements 😊
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Yes you did.
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I definitely do not have a low level of emotional balance.
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We all think like that, but everytime it is challenged by some of our close friends..! So the level keeps changing
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I hope you read my upper comment again..! I said “We” and you turned it into “I”.. So you turned it to personal
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