12 things that every Women need –

  1. Appreciation (In words/gifts/care) – for taking care, food, household work, balance in life, supporting.

  2. Safety and Security.

  3. Someone with whom she can share her secrets freely.

  4. A good Companion.

  5. Someone to listen, when she pour her heart out – feelings and emotions (and guide her if she want).

  6. Romance- Kisses, hugs, holding hands, glances, Playfulness (Intercourse is excluded).

  7. Someone she can say – Mine (Father/Brother/Husband/Children).

  8. Someone to help her in the household work.

  9. Someone to whom she can complain without feeling judged.

  10. An understanding and supporting family after Marriage.

  11. Husband who expresses himself, instead of repressing his feelings and emotions – making her doubt, her own self-worth.

  12. Finally she need a place, which she can call home – Peaceful, energetic, Inspiring, Safe and Secure – Belongingness.


To claim someone as β€œMINE”, you can claim it – Out of Control or Love. It’s up to you which one you choose.

— Abdul Gani Punjabi

9 thoughts on “12 things that every Women need –

  1. At 6 , romance, kisses 😘 hugs πŸ€— I agree with you
    At 11, husband..
    I don’t understand what you mean at 6 … no sex , then how 11 falls into place.
    May be a woman does not need anything, just because she is a complete woman.
    Anyways it’s nice reading you.
    I love both writing and reading.
    Do drop in at my blog If you have time to spare.
    Thank you for the follow.
    Anita 🌷

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    1. Thank You for this reply. By Point 6 – I was making a distinction between Being married and having an intercourse is diff. From being in a relationship where romance plays the main role..!

      And yeah don’t miss the 10 point..! Which says about marriage. So the 11th connects ❀…!

      I hope this made things lil clear..

      And yeah.. I believe both man and women have their own needs..! So to deny them is foolishness 😊

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      1. You are welcome.. I am happy that you asked. And I cleared it out 😊.. Sometimes asking is the best form getting new perspective ❀

        Have a great day.! Nd yeah – Stay tuned 😊

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      2. You are right ❀️ thank you for stopping by and for liking my post β€˜ How to tell you β€˜
        You may have notice the use of metaphors in my poem.
        It’s a flower talking to a bubble bee 🐝
        And not a woman to a man
        Thank you once more

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