- Appreciation (In words/gifts/care) – for taking care, food, household work, balance in life, supporting.
- Safety and Security.
- Someone with whom she can share her secrets freely.
- A good Companion.
- Someone to listen, when she pour her heart out – feelings and emotions (and guide her if she want).
- Romance- Kisses, hugs, holding hands, glances, Playfulness (Intercourse is excluded).
- Someone she can say – Mine (Father/Brother/Husband/Children).
- Someone to help her in the household work.
- Someone to whom she can complain without feeling judged.
- An understanding and supporting family after Marriage.
- Husband who expresses himself, instead of repressing his feelings and emotions – making her doubt, her own self-worth.
- Finally she need a place, which she can call home – Peaceful, energetic, Inspiring, Safe and Secure – Belongingness.
To claim someone as “MINE”, you can claim it – Out of Control or Love. It’s up to you which one you choose.
— Abdul Gani Punjabi
At 6 , romance, kisses 😘 hugs 🤗 I agree with you
At 11, husband..
I don’t understand what you mean at 6 … no sex , then how 11 falls into place.
May be a woman does not need anything, just because she is a complete woman.
Anyways it’s nice reading you.
I love both writing and reading.
Do drop in at my blog If you have time to spare.
Thank you for the follow.
Anita 🌷
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Thank You for this reply. By Point 6 – I was making a distinction between Being married and having an intercourse is diff. From being in a relationship where romance plays the main role..!
And yeah don’t miss the 10 point..! Which says about marriage. So the 11th connects ❤…!
I hope this made things lil clear..
And yeah.. I believe both man and women have their own needs..! So to deny them is foolishness 😊
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You’re welcome 😇
Thank you too for clarifying my mind on the different aspects of romance.
Have a wonderful Sunday
🌸🌷🌸
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You are welcome.. I am happy that you asked. And I cleared it out 😊.. Sometimes asking is the best form getting new perspective ❤
Have a great day.! Nd yeah – Stay tuned 😊
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You are right ❤️ thank you for stopping by and for liking my post ‘ How to tell you ‘
You may have notice the use of metaphors in my poem.
It’s a flower talking to a bubble bee 🐝
And not a woman to a man
Thank you once more
🌸🌷🌸
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I read that.. and few of the other too..! But then was in hurry, so shifted to that… Will read your other posts too 😊
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Please do
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This is a great list! All so true!
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There can be more.. but for now this are the things I observed through personal experience 😊
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